Hansu vs Isak
Hansu and Isak both have relationships with Sunja in the novel. However, in both cases they seem to be “forced”. Maybe forced is not the right word but there is some circumstance that unfairly balances the power dynamic in both relationships. Hansu begins by eyeing Sunja from afar. She originally rejects him, which oddly compels him more (whatever happened to no means no). We sense that Sunja is flattered by his persistence, but this does not rationalize the way that we see Hansu treat Sunja. He begins by telling her to call him brother, which not only has an incestuous connotation, to also further perpetuates the power dynamic; she now seems him as superior. Hansu furthers this by talking about his life of grandeur, enchanting Sunja into thinking about a life so different from hers. She is drawn to the energy. The relationship between Sunja and Hansu is very one-sided. For the most part, they meet on his terms, where he does most of the talking. When they have sex, it seems to be all Hansu’s desperation and inability to be a gentleman. Additionally, his failure to tell Sunja about his wife was purposeful and deceitful. I have no doubt that she would have not participated if she had known there was nothing in it for her in the end. In terms of Isak, he is a much more pitiful case. Though the book talks about his kindness and generosity, I can’t help but wonder if his willingness to marry Sunja has to do with his inability to find a wife in the time-frame he desires. He so desperately wants someone to love and care for him, but when a marriage begins in a tough situation this may be difficult to develop. All in all, Isak is a much more likable character, but neither of them I feel are good for Sunja.
I totally agree with this! The unbalanced power dynamics are made really clear in both of these relationships. Also, I feel like it can be considered a form of assault how Hansu kept so much information from Sunja and then slept with her. He let her be so vulnerable with him and then proceeded to lie and withhold the fact that he literally had another family.
ReplyDeleteWith regards to no means no, this novel does take place close to a century ago. Of course, Hansu's actions were deplorable by any metric, but historically women were simply not factored into the equation of consent, and when it comes to powerful people in the current day it's not too different. On a separate note, I definitely agree that Isak isn't necessarily what Sunja wants or perhaps even needs, even though he is her benefactor and what seems to be a genuine individual.
ReplyDeleteI think your description of the relationships as seeming "forced" is spot on. In both situations, Sunja seems wronged in a way, whether through Hansu's manipulation, or Sunja's lack of true connection to Isak. Both are comparable in this way, but I agree with you on Isak being much more likable, simply because he appears more straightforward, honest, and of better intent.
ReplyDeleteAs a woman, Sunja doesn't have any real agency in either relationship. Which is what makes her actions with regard to the watch pawning and her business starting so surprising.
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